الخير والشر في عاداتنا الجزء 3

نتيجة العادات السيئة 

"أفضل طريقة لمنع الإدمان هي ألا تبدأ أبدًا".

Today let’s start by reviewing the lesson from last week.  First, we learned peer pressure is one of the top contributing factors for young people deciding to use drugs.  Next, we learned how important it is to be careful about who we spend our time with.  And finally that we should choose friends whose influence on us is good.  Not the other way around.  This week, we will talk about our habits, drugs, and the end results.  Let us open our Bibles to review the scripture from last week.

1 بطرس 5:8

8 اصحوا وانتبهوا. لأن إبليس خصمك كأسد زائر يجول ملتمسًا من يبتلعه.

The devil is seeking to devour and destroy your life at a young age.  He wants to tempt you with all the bad things this world has to offer in an endeavor to get you to turn away from God.

Remember, you are an eternal, spiritual being with a miraculous mind and body that bears God’s reflection, and God wants every part of you to be pure.  However, this is only possible when your spirit lines up with God’s.  The act of sinning disrupts your companionship with God, and then you begin to slide away from Him.  Your friends might become upset when you talk to them about their drug use.  They might even say that Bible doesn’t say anything about drugs and tell you to get off their back.  This thought might raise a question.  Does the scripture’s apparent silence mean that some drug use is acceptable?  Drugs were virtually nonexistent during Biblical times.  The Bible does not specifically mention substances like marijuana, tobacco, glue, Miraa (Khat), and any number of others, but God makes it clear that He prohibits drunkenness.

رومية ١٣:١٣

13 لنسلك بلياقة كما في النهار. لا في الفتنة والشغب والسكر لا في الخدم ولا في الخصام والحسد. "

أفسس 5:18

18 ولا تسكروا مع الخمر الذي فائض فيه. ولكن امتلأوا من الروح.

The Biblical application to drugs is obvious: Substances that compromise our minds and bodies are against God’s plan for our life.  Consider the following:

  • يساوي دخان الماريجوانا تأثير ضعف ثلاث أنواع من البيرة.
  • Khat is a leafy green plant containing two main stimulant drugs that speed up your mind and body.  The main effects are similar to methamphetamine known here in the United States by its street name speed.
  • Khat is equal to the impairment effect of five beers.  This intoxication is two more beers than Marijuana smoke.
  • Glue – sniffing or inhaling – is also equal to the impairment effect of five beers.  These substances are dangerous and can destroy a healthy mind very quickly.

Using drugs impairs our thinking and causes us to lose control and do things we would not do if we were in our right mind.  I encourage you as a young person to think of someone you know is addicted to drugs.  I think that you will agree that this person is often unemployed, has irrational thoughts, uses poor judgment, has many sexual partners, and is often not faithful to their wife or husband.  In other words, a person like this seems to have no self-control.

فضيلة ضبط النفس أمر بالغ الأهمية لتلميذ المسيح. 

Self-control is one of the primary virtues of the Christian life.  The Bible instructs Christians to control their decision-making processes and not to become enslaved by anything that erodes their ability to act in ways honoring God.  A clear mind — which is impossible under the influence of drugs — is crucial to self-control, which affects our ability to grow as Christians.

يمكن الوثوق بالله - وليس المخدرات - ليرانا من آلام الحياة.

Perhaps some people are interested in drugs because drugs seem to offer relief from physical and emotional pain.  Disappointment in life, abuse, rejection by loved ones, breakups in relationships, or divorced parents might all be reasons someone would turn to drugs.  Craving a reprieve from life’s difficulties is entirely understandable, but some methods are better than others.  Illegal drugs and alcohol abuse should never be an option for the Christian.  Ponder this question: How do drugs really help?  Drugs may alter your perception of reality for a while but do nothing to change or improve the circumstance.  In fact, in the end, drugs will only cause more problems.  Drugs will addict and isolate you while creating a difficult financial burden to escape.  Drugs will only cause more hurt to add to what was there before.

Did you know that alcohol is the oldest drug around?  Because drugs impair your mind in the same manner as wine, you can substitute any drug of today in place of wine within the following scriptures, and you will know what God thinks about drug use.

أمثال ٢١:١٧

17 من يحب السرور يكون رجلا فقيرا. من يحب الخمر والزيت لا يغني.

أمثال ٢٣:٢١

21 لان السكير والشراهة يفتقران والنعاس يكسوه الرجل بخرق.

أشعياء 5:11

11 وَيْلٌ لِلْقَائِمِينَ فِي الصَّبَاحِ لِيَتَبِعُوا الْمُسْكِرَ. التي تستمر حتى الليل حتى يلهبهم الخمر ".

أمثال 20: 1

1 الخمر مستهزئ. المسكر متطاول. ومن ينخدع به ليس حكيما ".

حبقوق ٢: ١٥- ١٧

15 ويل لمن يسقي قريبه للشرب ويسقي له ويسكر ايضا حتى تنظر الى عريته.

16 الفن مملوء خزيا للمجد. اشرب انت ايضا فتكشف غرلتك. ترتد إليك كاس يمين الرب ، وفي مجدك تقطير عار.

17 لان ظلم لبنان سيغطيك وغنيمة البهائم التي اخافتها من دم الناس وظلم الارض والمدينة وكل الساكنين فيها.

I will share two examples in the Bible about men whose experience with alcohol led to inappropriate behavior to God and brought shame to those involved.  First, let’s look at Noah.

تكوين 9: 20-21

20 وابتدأ نوح يصير فلاحا وغرس كرما

21 وشرب من الخمر وسكر. وانكشف داخل خيمته ".

We find Noah drank wine, became drunk, and lost his sense of self-control, leaving himself unclothed in his tent.  Later, Noah became angry when he discovered his son came to call and saw his father unclothed in his tent.  This situation was not Noah’s son’s fault.  If Noah had not been drunk, he would have covered himself properly.  If you read further, you will find Noah became ashamed and blamed his son for his own transgression.  One thing that comes after addiction is shame.  Noah lost control, and the result brought shame to his life and hurt to his son.

Lot’s story also involves alcohol.  Lot, Abraham’s Nephew, found himself in an ungodly city.  Abraham prayed earnestly to God that He would send angels to save Lot from the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah.  Lot was told to take his family and flee to the mountains and under no circumstances were any who left the city to look back.  Unfortunately, Lot’s wife did not obey and looked back.  Immediately, she turned into a pillar of salt, which left Lot alone with his two daughters.  Later after settling in their new home, Lot’s daughters became concerned that there were no sons to carry on their father’s name.  Both were unmarried and therefore didn’t have children.  So, the two daughters devised an ungodly plan to make their father drunk and lay with him to become pregnant.  Lot became so drunk that the Bible says he had no memory of the girls coming or going.  Suppose Lot avoided wine that could induce drunkenness.  In that case, he could have stopped the ungodly behavior his daughters perpetrated on him.  Instead, Lot was out of his mind with drunkenness and succumbed to a horrible act with his children.  This incident of Lot and his daughters is recorded in the Bible as an example of what not to do.  The result of drunkenness left a legacy of shame for Lot and his family.

تكوين 19:33

33 فسقتا اباهما خمرا في تلك الليلة. فدخلت البكر واضطجعت مع ابيها. ولم يدرك عندما تستلقي ولا عندما تقوم "

When a person uses drugs and alcohol, it affects their mind and ability to control their body and actions.  People under the influence often do unnatural, not normal, and ungodly things.  Therefore, God strongly condemns alcohol and drugs in his word.

أمثال 20: 1

20 الخمر مستهزئ والمسكر محتشم ومن يضل به ليس حكيما.

The Bible has many scriptures that talk about drunkenness because alcohol and drugs affect the mind and the body.  But one risk of casual usage is easy addiction.  Some individuals will get hooked from the first time, and no one can know their susceptibility to addiction ahead of time.  That’s why the best way to prevent addiction is never to begin.  The devil will always say, “go ahead, try it; just this one time won’t hurt you.”

What happens when you slide down a steep slope and wipe out?  By the time you stop, you’re a lot farther down the hill from where you fell.  Momentum carries you long after the initial crash.  Unwise decisions have a momentum of their own.  When the devil shows you drugs, he endeavors to make it look harmless, but you can’t see the end of where you are going.  You don’t know how far or how fast it’ll carry you.  As someone slides down the hill of drug use, they tend to follow several stages:

  1. Experimental usage: Alcohol or drugs tried for the first time, often fueled by curiosity and/or motivated by peer pressure.
  2. Casual users: Casual users have decided they enjoy being high but limit their use.  Often, they use only on specific occasions.
  3. Regular users: When casual users become regular users, they can usually still function at work and school, but they are dangerously close to becoming addicted.  People around them begin to notice signs of usage, and the user may believe they can stop using but find themselves unable to do so for any significant period of time.
  4. Chemical addiction: In the final stage, addicts are compelled to use, not for pleasure’s sake, but to feel normal.  Those who reach this stage often deny the seriousness of the situation, even though friends, family, and co-workers recognize the problem.

I thought I would share how the Israelites in the Old Testament were taught to deal with their children who went down the path of drugs.

تثنية 21: 18-21

18 إذا كان لرجل ابن عنيد ومتمرد لا يسمع لصوت أبيه ولا لصوت أمه ، وعندما يؤدبه لا يسمع له:

19 حينئذ يمسكه ابوه وامه ويخرجا به الى شيوخ مدينته والى باب مكانه.

20 فيقولون لشيوخ مدينته ابننا هذا عنيد ومتمرد لا يسمع لصوتنا. إنه شره وسكير.

21 ويرجمه جميع رجال مدينته بالحجارة حتى يموت. فتنزع الشر من وسطك. ويسمع كل اسرائيل فيخاف.

Thank God things are different today.  If you found yourself starting down the path of alcohol and drugs, you don’t need to continue this way and end in a deplorable state.  Before you drop out of school or destroy your family, God has a way to help you end this drug and alcohol abuse for good.  But first, you must be honest with yourself and admit you are powerless over the addiction with your whole heart.  Admit that you have a serious need and ask God to forgive you of your sins.  Jesus said that God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that whosoever shall believe on Him shall be saved.  God has made a way out of sin and the drug and alcohol addiction that might be affecting your life today.

١ يوحنا ١: ٩

9 ان اعترفنا بخطايانا فهو امين وعادل حتى يغفر لنا خطايانا ويطهرنا من كل اثم.

Praise God.  He has power over all the power of the enemy and all sin.  Young people, I am speaking to you.  The best way to prevent addiction is never to begin.  I’ve told you before that God saved me at a young age.  I had temptation from friends that wanted me to try drugs and alcohol.  Thank God he gave me the ability to say no, and I never had to smoke marijuana, try drugs, or drink alcohol.  God blessed my life because of the choice to say no to drugs and alcohol.  Thank God I was able to finish high school and college.  I was able to go to work and worked many successful jobs.  Because of God in my life, I never had to feel the shame of losing self-control because of drugs or alcohol.  So, I stand by this today, the best way to prevent addiction to alcohol or drugs is never to begin.